Silence
The answers are inside of you if you have the courage to listen. You are like
some other people and like no other person. You have something remarkable to
share with the world. It starts with listening to what’s inside of you and ends with
the courage to go where it leads.
Follow it.
live by this rule: "Leave nothing important unsaid"
Intimacy takes courage. Risking getting emotional or upsetting someone so that
you can express yourself is scary, but the result is magical. Waiting
for the right time to get real in your relationships is a fool’s errand. There is no right
time to have the conversation, ask the hard questions, say “I love you,” or take the
time to truly listen. There is only right now.
Sometimes it’s not merely a hard question that you need to ask. It’s actually
ending the silence between you.
Silence is
always the problem. Deciding not to say what you feel creates what researchers call
“cognitive dissonance” between what you truly believe (in your heart) and what you
actually do in the moment. Those problems build up and, over time, they can break
your relationship.
Culled from The 5 seconds Rule by Mel Robbins
Abdulkareem,Taoheedah kehinde
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